Why I am afraid of being a girl
Was reading the entire article about the gang rape that happened in Delhi....Frankly speaking i was not shocked.For me Delhi has become the hub of such crimes.So i overlooked though somewhere deep I was very upset and even scared.Somehow I got access to certain articles regarding the incident concerning the brutality she faced and even her medical conditions..and yes this time i sat staring at the screen for minutes..imagining the entire trauma and pain she must have gone through.A chill ran down my spine.
My mother is now afraid to send me out at night however urgent it maybe.So am I.
But the question is until when??
Where am I actually safe??
We read news of girls being raped by relatives, friends(sometimes even boyfriends), teachers and roadside mongrels.So basically from our very homes which are considered the safest place to our schools the temple of education girls are safe nowhere.earlier we were taught if you sense danger please go to a public place with lots of people around..Seriously seeing today's scenario where people can see a rape happening on road..eve teasing happening at every nook and corner , are you kidding me?
The delhi rape incident happened in a delhi transport bus running on roads of delhi.So you are telling me that the public transport are also not safe?That means every one should own their own vehicles.Because the government denies any responsibility in such cases.some politicians claim that the girls wear inappropriate clothes and invite danger.Are they trying to say that in winters of delhi a girl would have been wearing explicit clothes at night?And ok even if she is then government instead of coming forward and taking responsibility of protecting girls is going gaga with "n" number of excuses putting the girl at fault.Applause for our DEMOCRATIC GOVERNMENT.I don't understand instead of finding ways like girls should not go out late at night,day working shifts,be fully clothes etc etc why doesn't the government find ways to increase security of girls.Due to the insensitive behavior of police and the entire fiasco of court 75%of cases are not even filed.And those that are even filed take years to be solved and mostly the rapists come out free.
In the entire rape scenario it is the girl who is showcased at fault.Why?She is raped mentally physically socially...and then she is the culprit and not that bastard who could control his sexual urges and pounced upon a little girl who couldn't fight back?
And in case of gang rapes the condition is even worse.4-5 men preying on a single girl and once the victim is in their claws she is devoid of everything she earned in life within the next few minutes
For our law the punishment for rapes are 7-10 years.and in some cases where a lot of hype is created even life time imprisonment.But is this enough?Rape is equivalent to murder.It is killing of soul of a girl who after this incident will not only face physical harm but the pain inflicted on her personality will never erode.Death sentence is also a very liberal punishments for rapists.and cancelling the license of the drivers?wow what a punishment!!!
Personally i would request girls if a guy has audacity to pass a comment over you see the scene and if possible reply back.You not taking an action today might give him the strength to hold your hand next time and then maybe a sexual assault.Speak for yourself
and for all those reading this article if you see a girl being eve teased don't be hesitant saying "k faltu k pachde mein kaun pade". go ahead help her.maybe today your help saves her and tomorrow someone comes forward to save you.
only and only if people become lil more sensitive then for all those mentally unstable charged up mongrels -your days are going to end very soon.
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